Reflecting on what is common to almost every man, we men have a shadow following us. This shadow is unlike the one we see the sun give us, reflecting our every move. The “shadow” I’m speaking of is sinister, selfish, always nudging us to make unproductive and possibly evil decisions.
As men, we are followed twenty-four-seven by this “shadow” which whispers and then eventually shouts in our ears. Who is this bully and why is it so hard to resist his growling? It is the penis, that appendage with so much seeming promise but many times delivers misery after one succumbs to its power.
What you say?
Sex is undoubtedly man’s drug of choice. It’s built-in, programmed to defeat a reasonable mind; an enemy posing as our best friend. This sounds absurd I know. God created man to tend the garden. He said it’s not good that man is alone so from Adam he made Eve. Obviously, by design, they were to recreate themselves; they weren’t to remain alone on planet Earth. Children were a planned outcome of their creation.
Apparently, Eve’s ability to conceive was regulated differently before they fell into disobedience. However, I believe Adam and Eve had sex and enjoyed that satisfying connection. Being created weaker than Adam, Eve fell for the deception of Satan. Being Adam was the one in charge of doing God’s commandments, it was up to Adam to do the will of God. Apparently, Eve quickly learned the power she had over Adam via his penis. She brought the temptation to sin before Adam and I believe enticed him into submitting to sin by the promise of a good time sexually.
Eve lured Adam to her side promising a good time if he would just bend the rules. So many bad decisions and bad marriages have happened because of the relentless prodding of the penis. This is why sex is the source of so many of the cruelest, most brutal crimes. You see, Adam chose sex over the Word of God and obeying God. He had chosen to believe his wife over God. And what did God say? Because you have listened to your wife, you’ll both be thrown out of the Garden of Eden. Sex can lead to disobedience and sex so often leads to sin.
This doesn’t mean you should never listen to your wife, it just means weigh her advice against the Word of God. This is why we must “wash” our wives in the Word. By doing so, couples understand what God requires. Adam quickly blamed Eve for the sin. “The woman You gave me” argument didn’t fly then and it doesn’t fly now. Men are to be in control of their bodies and their minds; they aren’t.
So that nasty, little appendage has become man’s “god”. Man will do most anything for his penis. Rape, whether a baby, child or a woman in there nineties, no problem. Murder for sex? Story after story could be told. The penis has the capacity to be the instrument to create life but that is not it’s over-riding mission; it’s sex for the sake of power. Men’s unchecked power is what’s wrong with our world; that’s what’s wrong with men.
Men will get together with women solely for sex. They live with them, have children with them, all for the sake of sex. There’s no becoming one flesh, no desire to please God, just pleasing the penis.
King David said his mother conceived him in sin. Does that mean sex is sin? No, of course not; God designed the human body for sex. It means David’s daddy just had to have sex and he was a byproduct. David was the youngest of eight boys and there were probably a like number of girls. Are large families good? Yes. But we should thoughtfully have children. Resist having more children then your money can support. Don’t naively believe that God will provide everything you need. It is you who are responsible for your children. We don’t need nice houses, automobiles, and all the amenities that a comfortable life requires. But we do need some kind of shelter, food, and transportation that we can afford. And we must be willing able to provide a vision for our children’s future, especially boys. Teach them to depend on God and not the penis for their most important decisions.
To sum it up, we choose between a penis-driven life or a purpose-driven life; and that makes all the difference.